Dear baba I am a disciple of Baba lokenath for a long time and I believe nothing in my life happens without his wish. And I always was able to face my problems with all his blessings. But recently I am facing a terrible time where I am unable to control my mind. I have a very good friend with whom I like to spend time (nothing physical ) .I am a married woman and I always have a fear that my husband will be hurt by this. At the same time my friend is going through a tough time and he needs my support. I don’t know why I am going thru such a rough situation where I don’t want to hurt any one. But still hurting my friend .I believed every incident in my life is directly controlled by Baba. Then why this is happening to me? Why am I getting close to my friend so much? How to stop all this? Please help ….
This is essentially an emotional issue. When you have trusted Baba Lokenath all through your life and felt His divine guidance and presence then why should you think Baba is not with you this time?
First and foremost, try to understand that as a married woman your first loyalty is to your husband. Anything you do that will ultimately create doubts in his mind would create in turn a consequence which might impair your relationship at home which could be very difficult for you to go through.
I do appreciate your concern for your good friend and your feelings for him, but how do you propose to keep your feet on both the boats and sail safe?
If you have trust in Baba Lokenath, then be on the path of Truth (true to your conscience) and surrender to Baba and His Will to take care of your good friend. If you trust Him and leave your friend to His good protective care all will be well.
Make sure you don’t take any wrong decision on the basis of the dictates of your mind and emotions. Be grounded on the field of Baba Lokenath’s light and Wisdom and move on the path of life so that you don’t regret in future.
My love and prayers are ever with you,
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